Posts by chicken little

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Teacher Training Interview Tomorrow

by creativhoney in

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i have an interview tomorrow to bridge from teaching sixth form to secondary - and instead of graphics, it.. i havent worked for a year when i left the kingdom hall and most of my life so i am really nervous about it.. i have to prepare a document outlining my ict skills and also a ten minute presentation.

- ive had this to do since saturday and i have been mostly staring at a blank screen in panic.. - i dont know what ict teachers actually teach there is so much info i cant filter it and all i can see is ict across the curriculum, which is incorporating it into other subjects.

but i wouldnt be teaching other subjects.

chicken little

You can do this. To leave Jws took more guts than any 10 minute presentation could ever require. Gather your resources you are going to be just fine!

chicken little

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New member introduction

by deemoo in

i'm new to the forum and couldn't find a place for new members to introduce themselves... so here i am, starting a new topic!(bold!).

i started studying with the jws a few months ago.

we're now on chap.

chicken little

If it is a guy who is studying with you and he does not bring along a sister...you need to know this. He is totally out of line with the Jw directions...no male should study alone with a female....forbidden. Sooooo he either fancies you and is trying to get around the rules or he is not a fully indoctrinated witness. Interesting. If he brings a sister and it is not his wife or fiancee then he is still on rocky ground according to the society. Of course maybe he is 85 or something...then its ok (haha).

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New member - My story

by allelsefails in

i've been reading for a little while, but really "studying" for a couple of years.

figure i could share my story and listen to what you guys have to say.

i was "born" into jws in 1976. my mother was baptized in 1975.. ouch.

chicken little

Welcome! If you can afford therapy I would say skrimp and save and have a few sessions..............it helps so much...find one that deals with high control groups. Use time on yourself...you are no good to anyone if you dont find yourself first. Your wife has to find her own way......you may love her and she may love you but you cannot "save " her.

I too was born in....my parents had little education and were emotionally primed (mum) to become witnesses. When we realize that few of us had any choice whatsoever in choosing our religion we are often shocked. It takes time to deal with all the turmoil. I wish you the best and think you are very brave. There has happened a great deal in your life and the inner conflict can pull you apart. Anyemotional blackmail to stay in "the truth" should be seen for what it is........blackmail.

Much love and best wishes

Chicken little

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My letter to all the schools about the effects of JW teachings

by boyzone in

i wrote this letter several months ago but didn't feel strong enough to deal with the jw flack it might cause.

now i'm feeling better and ready to let the professionals around me know just how insidious the jw teachings can be on susceptable young minds.

the forst 6 letters will go out to the high schools in my area.

chicken little

Excellent work. It is balanced but forceful in putting forward the possible damage these young ones are exposed to. I read a little of your previous posts and can really feel for you and your family. You have suffered.

Hope you get some positive replies from those who receive the letters.

keeshongirl .... your parents no doubt were so sad and bewildered by your going into the Jws, it takes time for them. I am so glad you are back as a family.

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My sons first real birthday celebration...

by Jack Burton in

so my youngest son turned 5 today.

this was our first real party for one of our children.

we always did what i expect alot of us witnesses did, have a "special day" party...just not calling it a birthday.

chicken little

So glad you had a great day for your son. We stopped 2 years ago..our son was 6 at the time. Our grown children never had birthdays...so the first one to come around was our oldest sons 25th birthday...we suprised him when he came by with a cake with candles on...I was in such a hurry to hide it I put it back in the fridge with the candles on as he came in. I burnt a big hole in the top of the inside fridge!!! Our little boy then told a sister when she came by.....mummy burnt the fridge with......, birthday cake. Her face was a picture!

We had a pirate birthday party for our little boy and our son and daughter and boyfriend travelled 4 hours to be there so as not to miss the fun....they had as much fun as the little kids....poor deprived things. we also had special days when we were in...but it is not the same.

I never got it when witnesses had no problem saying happy anniversary and lots of presents, yet to say happy birthday for ones own child was a sin.

Enjoy..that is what I say now. Just had a lovely bunch of flowers and chocs for Mums day delivered...

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Did you get sick after you went to an assembly ?

by greenhornet in

i always did.

it was like clock work a few days after.

bang sore throat sometime fever etc..

chicken little

300 went down with stomach problems when the "clever brother" in charge of catering did not know how to handle warm meat for the lunch. Circuit assemblies meant sore throats. District conventions....usually hyperthermia....outside in freezing cold stadiums all day.

Post traumatic stress disorder when reality hits in after the convention.

Twitching, spasms when the next location is announced...anyone had those?

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Long term effects of Armageddon images

by Lady Lee in

someone i know is having a hard time with anxiety attacks.

she hasn't been a jw since a teen.

recently she has started seeing a therapist.

chicken little

I am way too late in anwsering..but I have just read this thread. I stayed a witness when my family left in 1975. I was 14 and my younger brother 12. He went on to become a biker/rocker...hard lifestyle...tough people. He is a lovely guy though and eventually got his life sorted out. He is now 47 and just last year when I told him I was stopping as a witness, he explained he still had nightmares from the pictures in the old paradise book. That is over 35 years ago for him and he was out all that time....so I know those images have a deep down effect...they are not like comics/videos with violence...we truly believed as a child this was going to happen to all our friends and family who were not witnesses.

Chicken little

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UP ALL NIGHT!!!!......AGAIN!!!!!!!!

by Warlock in

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friends

this time, i'm sick.. i can't sleep, and i don't want to have a drink.. i think i have the flu.. i just hope it's not the oink!.

warlock .

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chicken little

Poor little bunny....check our youtube under man flu...great british comedian....taking the p... with you guys and the flu.

Get better soon...I suffer from insomnia so I sympathize.

Chiken little

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From 'Everlasting Life' to just a few more years. How did you handle the realisation that you WOULD die?

by nicolaou in

the thing is, a lot of us thought we'd never die.

do you comprehend what a truly massive mind-fuck that is?

when i was embroiled in doubts and knew i was heading 'out of the truth' i remember waves of nausea hitting me.

chicken little

I never believed I would live forever.........why me? I felt less worthy than many of the billions that lived a life of extreme poverty without any means of changing it. I lived in relative plenty, I have had a good life...I am now 49 and I have seen my children grow up and also have a good life. Why should I want more? I use to study with people and tell them all about the paradise, yet deep down inside I just did not believe it.

We live our life now...it is often unfair and difficult. There is no way around that except dying. I prefer the reality of life to the pie in the sky dream.

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How do you feel when you see groups of Jehovah's Witnesses in the ministry?

by nicolaou in

regret, anger, frustration?

how about sadness, sorrow, sympathy, understanding, even compassion!.

it can be quite confusing at times, especially if some of those witnesses were your friends.

chicken little

The song ...those were the days my friend...come to mind. I want to wake them up but usually just smile and walk on by.